Dick Pelletier was good. He was a good man who made a good life.

 

 

He was a good neighbor. There are many stories about parties in the Pelletier basement back on Florence St in White Bear Lake. The neighbors there were tight knit. 20+ years of raising their families together. These neighbors are still great friends today.
 

The neighbors in Cameron, Wisconsin were lucky too. If there were lawns that needed mowing or driveways that needed plowing, Dick was there to help. If there were trees that needed trimming or docks that needed to be put in. He was there with waders on to help. If there were beers to drink after, in the shade of a tree, the breeze from the lake on his face, he was there. He was good.

 

He was a good friend and storyteller. Oh, the stories we’ve heard about this crazy group of friends. Long time friends. Fish stories for sure. Legendary stories of crazy camping trips, fishing trips, weekly golf adventures. You know these friends. This group of friends knows how to tell these stories too. Find one of them later and ask for one. Maybe ask about the time Dick was responsible for the food on a fishing trip to Lake of the Woods and he only brought baloney sandwiches and baked potatoes to eat for 3 days or ask about the adventures of TWT, or ask about the epic all day water balloon fight. These friends have hours and hours of stories to tell.

 

Dick loved practical jokes. He once replaced the giant turkey George was grilling with a tiny bird he had scorched to dark black. George took off the lid of the grill and his beautiful turkey had become a shrunken blackened rock. So funny. Dick had the best lawn on the block in White Bear Lake. Once, his neighbor Bob grabbed Armor All by mistake instead of weed killer to get rid of some weeds on his own lawn, Dick sent him a letter from the city of White Bear informing him he won an award for shiniest lawn on the block. No one was safe from his jokes. Grandson Max once accidentally rode his bike into a mailbox, sure enough, the next time we visited the lake Dick found an old mailbox and attached it to the front of Max’s bike. Dick loved wrapping gifts in crazy ways. You could NEVER guess what the gift was by looking at it or shaking it. He had a good sense of humor.

 

 

He was a good husband, father and grandfather.
 

 

He and Diane were married for 49 years. He cherished Diane. He let her have the upstairs tv and he took the basement one. They were so lucky to be such great partners in life. They built a retirement home on a lake and actually got to spend almost 20 years together, in retirement, in that home. What a blessing. They took vacations, and even though they were mainly fishing related, they did it together. Dick was lucky, for a lot of their life together his house was filled with testosterone. 3 men and 1 lady. Diane dreamt of a holiday afternoon NOT filled with an action movie. But she had no chance. She was outnumbered. 3 to 1. conversations at the dinner table were always about food plots, hunting clothes or Swedish pimple lures.

 

They made a good family. Jason and Mark had a great childhood. How could you not with these two parents? The 4 of them were together all the time; fishing, camping, playing cards. And laughing – oh the laughing. Dick had a great sense of humor. The 6 of us could often be found playing cards around the dining room table. One of the boys would say something that they thought was funny and all of a sudden the 3 of them would be belly laughing and wiping their eyes. Diane, Toni and I would look at each other and shake our heads. We rarely got the joke. They just cracked each other up.

 

Dicks stubbornness would sometimes get to them though. They would come up for the weekend specifically to help do something with Dick and he would have it all done by the time they got there. Drove them crazy.

 

Dick was a good grandpa. He came to every event he could for his 4 grandkids. He was proud of them. He and Maggie texted a lot. I was always amazed at his expert use of emojis. He loved watching Max play anything, basketball or baseball. Up until the end, he even listened to Max’s last few games through a cool app on Jason’s phone. Pumping his fist whenever Max struck someone out. He loved walking through the hunting land or fishing with Owen. He was always ready, waiting to rescue Owen if he got excited or distracted and took a miss step off the end of the dock. He loved watching Quinn be Quinn. Marveling at her headstrong attitude. He even loved to watch Quinn’s 3-hour dance recital. He actually talked about how great it was for weeks. He was a really good grandpa. Not many Grandpas have a blow dart and a golf cart and freezie pops in the pole barn. He was a good husband, father, and grandpa.

 

 

He maybe didn’t know it, but he was a good teacher too. He taught kids in the community hunter safety, he taught his daughters in law how to ice fish, he taught his grandkids how to play cards. He taught his boys how to back up a trailer, how to launch a boat, how to fillet a fish, how to fall asleep in a tree stand and not fall out, how to throw horseshoes, darts, and baseballs. Most of all, he taught his boys how to be good husbands and fathers. The best. Because of him, they are good.

 

What makes a good life? Good neighbors, good friends, good laughs, good husbands, good fathers, good grandpas. That was Dick. He was good.